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Originally Posted by bright  There's nothing wrong with it if he doesn't want / like kids. He's free to do whatever makes him happy and he should do only what makes him happy. |
I'm sorry, this is
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥. If he didn't want kids, he should have thought of that before he had them! Isn't there enough people in the world farting out babies like so much excrement and then abandoning them or torturing them with their own insanity??
There is
so much wrong with having kids and then deciding it was a mistake and going off to put your own happiness first!! Having kids is the biggest responsibility in the world!! Forget marriage! Raising kids is far more important! These are
human beings!! You don't say, after making human beings "Well, there's nothing wrong if Steve doesn't want or like his kids. He's free to do whatever will make him happy." These are human beings who did not
ask you to bring them into the world!
You wittingly, and with full knowledge of what you were doing, brought them into the world yourself, by your own free will. You have the biggest obligation ever to them! Sorry, you are
not free from your kids!!
Is there no limit to the self-consuming narcissism that has infiltrated PD?? I would have thought, at least, where children are concerned, this "your-happiness-is-all-that-matters" attitude would not have permeated.