Gotta say. Though Im surprised, I am left with a grin.
Im a 32 year old single man. I found your site sometime in 2007 and have since made nearly a full 180. I was on a destructive path ruining many things and basically looking at life through that why me lens we all had at one time. Through these years of growing and changing I have not had a steady relationship at all.
Mariage has always been a mystery to me. Look at most animals, mariage is virtually non existent in nature. I always just thought it was weird to tie yourself together with someone. The power of two beings sharing goals and focus can be exhilarating. There follows with all this that all people are slightly different. There are parts of others that simply just dont hold true with your own beliefs. Ive discovered this with girlfriends,family, work aquaintances, friends and even pets.
People change and recognizing the right time to break amicably is something that many of us are not very good with. Im happy for you two. Glad to see that one of the biggest influences in my life has yet again enlightened me and shown me a lesson I never thought I would discover from him.
When you start hitting the singles meetups and exploring the single world please let me know. Here in vegas things are always going. I wouldnt mind being in the PPS(Pavlina Pickup Squad). Conscious growth, intelligent conversation and deep emotional connections are our way. Honesty, openness, trust and fun are our game!