Where does the OP say that he "ignored" the ugly girl? Like in my example, I did not ignore the ugly girl. But she was ugly on the inside too and wanted nothing to do with me trying to have a conversation with everyone.
Basically, deal with it. Be happy for your friends. Life isn't fair. Just because you are insecure doesn't give you the right to interfere with your friends and sabotage their happiness and try to ruin their fun.
But, people with low self-esteem can't see the world in that way... they are just so focused on themselves and their own misery that other people's concerns aren't really a factor. You have to care about yourself first before you can care for someone else.
|