I'm not ugly & I went on to have a great love life but I have BEEN in the "unattractive" girls' shoes - with the Barbie doll friends - & it is NOT FUN.
I had three guys compliment my friend then compliment my other friend & just ignore me. Tell me would YOU feel good if it happened to YOU?
If you were with a friend & beautiful women hit on him & just ignored you would it not bother you at all?
It hurts like HELL my friend.
In fact even though I have had a great love life SINCE going through that experience, your post has brought me back to that feeling
even though I since dated a male model, two strippers other gorgeous guys that made womens' heads turn & women flirted with & am happily married to a gorgeous guy I feel like I'm back there - no it's not you guess I just have more work to do on myself. On the INSIDE. Cos when people chat up your friend & ignore you, you start to feel that you are ****. And you start to believe that you must be REALLY ugly so much so that NOONE will EVER like you.
So long story short I know how the friends feel.
That is still no reason for her to drag the friend away though but maybe as some people said the two girls had an agreement beforehand? I never tried to drag MY friends away.
Are there no gorgeous girls on their own in clubs that you could approach?
And does it have to be in a club - sometimes girls probably go there in packs for extra safety.
Guys usually - not always - were more likely to approach me when I was on my own. Sometimes when I was with friends.
Could you not bring some friends along with you? I guess what I'm trying to say is the "unattractive annoying friend" - she's a person to. With real feelings. Sure you don't want her to think you fancy HER when you don't but maybe you could include her a TINY bit more in the conversation but not as much as the one you like. All the best!