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Originally Posted by cylon  I also think some girls like having a more unattractive friend, it makes them look even prettier by comparison, (they don't want to have to compete with their friends) and they can sort of be used as body-guards and c-blockers in the way a male friend would. It's all about security. Think about if you have any guy friends who have (or hopefully, used to have--cut these guys out of your life) low-self esteem. Are they more likely to encourage you to talk to a cute girl, or are they more likely to point out all the things that could go wrong? |
Yep I've had some mediocre "friends" with low self esteem in the past of whom I'd hang around to make me feel better about myself. In truth all they did was hold me back so I phased them out of my life years ago.
So called friends who would find "faults" with even my most pro active plans and dismiss any progress I was making with women as they didn't have the capacity to understand the complexity or Emotional Intelligence behind dating.
I think you have a valid point that this principle is the same for females who have similiar friends who take a lot of value from them.
As a general rule of thumb Good Looking Girls should hang around other good looking girls in Nightclubs.
A lot of pretty popular girls I've known, do have a wide network of plain janes, old/er female friends especially with Facebook
However come Saturday Night they tend to limit this down to their 6 hottest friends. As they get an equal share of Male Attention, no-one misses out.