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JSB · 10-25-2009, 08:19 PM

If they are going to a club to hang out together, rather than hook up with guys, can you see how one girl would be annoyed if her friend is ignoring her to hang out with some guy?

Now imagine that every time they go out, one girl (the "hot one") gets hit on by multiple guys and stops to talk and flirt with them. At the same time, the friend is not getting the same attention from men. Can you see why the friend would get fed up with this and try to drag her away?

I'm not saying it's polite or justified, but it is understandable.

Bring some friends to talk to her friends, or pay her friends attention as well, so they don't feel like you are intruding and pulling her away from them.

10-25-2009, 08:19 PM	#3 (permalink)
JSB Family Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,133	If they are going to a club to hang out together, rather than hook up with guys, can you see how one girl would be annoyed if her friend is ignoring her to hang out with some guy? Now imagine that every time they go out, one girl (the "hot one") gets hit on by multiple guys and stops to talk and flirt with them. At the same time, the friend is not getting the same attention from men. Can you see why the friend would get fed up with this and try to drag her away? I'm not saying it's polite or justified, but it is understandable. Bring some friends to talk to her friends, or pay her friends attention as well, so they don't feel like you are intruding and pulling her away from them.