gee, i find it nice that you are concerned about women's feelings on this, and would consciously like to not do it so much or the wrong way
i agree, there is looking and L
KING!
being giving a nod or a light double take can be flattering...but some men...well, you'd like to hand them a towel
i think a woman can provoke or avoid some of the unwanted stares...but the way most dress...well, a guy could hardly take it.
while we are on the topic...when guys are out with your girls...if you must...please be discreet, so the "lookee" knows who the "looker" is really with
