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Originally Posted by Bradshaw  Girls stare too, you know.  I find the look, look away, look, look away, look, look away thing that girls do really amusing, ha ha ha.  |
No we don't, not the way men do! We look but never stare with lust, drooling and hanging jaws
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I have been looked at/stared at all my life. Sometimes it is flattering and sometimes it is offensive. It depends on the way HOW it is done. When it is a obvious scan from head to toe it rarely is a comfortable feeling. Or when you feel that you are being striped down there and then.
But if it a longer gaze with a nice smile then it is OK. Or a discreet look you feel and not really see. When I was a very young girls I was so ashamed to be looked at, but as I excepted the fact that I am considered very attractive I just learned to live with it in a way. And use it
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The most problems I have had are men who can't hold their eyes in a conversation on my eyes or face because they keep looking down at my breasts. I have had board meetings where I would ask a colleague if he could please lift his eyes up from my decollete! I even asked one if he had ever seen a pair of them before.
But I have a friend who is passionate at looking at women all the time. It gets on my nerves when we go out when he does not stop at all. I like seeing a beautiful lady and a gorgeous man! I am not jealous at all, there just should be a "measure of all things". When I start looking at men and commenting them he becomes aware and stops.