Say Bob loves Alice. Alice and Corel are friends. Bob doesn't tell Alice that he loves her but Bob tells Corel that he loves Alice.
That puts Corel into a bad position because she has to either without information from Alice or create an akward situation by telling her about how Bob loves her and doesn't know whether to tell her.
A better way would be if Bob would speak to Alice directly and try to intensify their relationship step by step.
Then he either hit a step where Alice doesn't want to go along and should accept that decision or he Alice starts to become his girlfriend.
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