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The Daredevil · 10-22-2009, 08:17 AM

Is it rite to propose to a person(of opposite sex) who has been a friend of mine for so long...??? the person was a great friend of mine for the past 3 years... i have done project and all sorts of college activities along with that person... Till a few months back i didn't have any idea of loving that person.... But suddenly i have started feeling that why shouldn't the person be my life partner???... Because I feel I am at my best and at home when i am with that person.... I feel that the person also likes me...

Am I doing any injustice to friendship or am I spoiling the sanctity and chastity of Friendship???? Because one of my other friends(who is a friend to us both) severed ties with me stating that i have spoiled the meaning of the very word "FRIENDSHIP" when i told him that i am in love with that person...

I was very much depressed on seeing him leaving me.... Is it a sin to love a friend???.....

10-22-2009, 08:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
The Daredevil Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 13	Is it right to fall in love with a friend(of opposite sex) ???? Is it rite to propose to a person(of opposite sex) who has been a friend of mine for so long...??? the person was a great friend of mine for the past 3 years... i have done project and all sorts of college activities along with that person... Till a few months back i didn't have any idea of loving that person.... But suddenly i have started feeling that why shouldn't the person be my life partner???... Because I feel I am at my best and at home when i am with that person.... I feel that the person also likes me... Am I doing any injustice to friendship or am I spoiling the sanctity and chastity of Friendship???? Because one of my other friends(who is a friend to us both) severed ties with me stating that i have spoiled the meaning of the very word "FRIENDSHIP" when i told him that i am in love with that person... I was very much depressed on seeing him leaving me.... Is it a sin to love a friend???.....