SomeRandomGuy, my husband and I are the same way.
I mean, I have some female friends, but my closest friends are guys. One, they are the real source for wondering what men think. Sorry, but my female friends just don't know. Plus, my female friends get sensitive. We have fallen out over the simpliest, stupidest things. I just want to hang out, watch some football or basketball, joke around, and be a little aggressive.
My husband is the opposite, he dislikes the machismo of guys and is not really into sports. He prefers to talk. He also likes to speak to women because he wants to know what women think lol.
IA, James81, that it might be that having friends of one gender may signify a tendency of behavior towards that gender. However, I'm not really "mannish" and my husband is not "feminine" (by looks), so I would prefer to say I'm more yang and he's more yin.
I also wanted to add I generally get along with everybody and have a pleasant personality. It's just that I'm drawn more to men as friends than women.
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