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Originally Posted by Andrew Gubb  He "needs" you? That is not a healthy relationship. |
Although I agree with this, you also have to take into consideration that different people have different ways of using words.
My husband needs me, and he wants me to need him. For him needing means what wanting means for me.
He will survive without me. He can be happy without me. He will be ok without me. He just doesn´t want to. For him that means needing. For me that means wanting.
So, before getting into fights about words, make sure that you know what the other person is saying is what you think he is saying
Just a little tip so you won´t have to fight the dozens of fights I had to fight before I figured this out.
