Originally Posted by yogi
I don't doubt the validity of the Law of Attraction. I've had things happen to me that have led me to believe in it.
My question is about single men who watch a lot of porn / fantasize about sex with beautiful naked women a lot.
How would one parse the logic of the Law of Attraction to understand why these people rarely get laid?
Believe it or not i have thought the same thing about science fiction geeks- if they are playing D& D or Star Wars why aren't they flying around in x-wing fighters, but instead, end up on youtube being laughed at?? its about fantasizing vs. visualizing.
as others of said how you are thinking about it would be important - its like seeing a beautiful woman walking down the street and thinking she's beautiful i want her, but she probably doesn't want anything to do with me -
or fantasizing about bedding some actress - its fantasizing - which i assume men do when the watch porn too, vs visualizing.