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Originally Posted by Andrew Gubb  I thought I'd write something to bump this thread, as it was generating some interesting discussion.
So I've decided that my next steps are to start really caring about my appearence! I've always been a bit lacking on that one, one of the aspects of myself which is definitely not feminine. Thing is, I do like to dress well and look good when I overcome my mental blocks and actually do it. Maybe it'll make me feel more feminine too 
I tried going to a gay bar the other day but there wasn't much going on. I'm still not sure if I'm bisexual, it really confuses me... |
glad you found something to try, the appearance stuff. yes, primping generally has more of a feminine feel to it. (EDIT: primping may have a negative connotation. oops, my issues are showing
so, replace 'primping' with 'spending time on one's appearance'.)
Andrew, i dunno if you remember one of my first posts on this thread. i shared about how i actually thought i might be a lesbian, so i played out the whole intimate process to see. in my own case, i don't think i'm a lesbian and probably not bisexual either (would still enjoy making out with a woman though). these things can get complicated and confusing... my own take is that our internal sense of masculine and feminine is not necessarily the same as sexual orientation. gender identity can be related to sexual orientation, or it can be more of a spiritual issue. not every tom boy is a lesbian, not every man who loves the theater is gay. see what i mean? being interested in revisiting a greater expression of feminine energy doesn't necessarily make you bisexual or gay. sometimes it's an issue of balance. i have no idea if i'm making any sense.
