[ar81]

The problem I see is that men are educated to be rude among men.
When it comes to women, then we think "hey, I do not understand women".
Of course we don't. They are not like men.
If you came from than world of men, getting into the world of women is hard.

Rejection. Is it so terrible?
A salesman will see that among 100 people, 10 people say "your product is great" but usually only one will buy. A salesman who has a 13% sucess is an outstanding and exceptional one.
Same happens when a man goes to seek a woman.
What's the big deal with rejection?
My first time it took me 9 rejections until I found a girl who said yes.
Ah!! You probably watched crappy Hollywood tales about being successful the first time... I have some news for you. Hollywood is fiction. Hollywood is not even capable to make historical movies accurate and reliable.

Unfortunately for men who look for sex, women are smarter than men.
The only women a man can take advantage is a naive one, but women do not remain naive for too long. And as a general rule, it is not good to upset a woman. The most fierce and fearsome combatants in every war zone are usually women. You may not want to fight with a woman.

You may not want to betray a woman, or mistreat her, or use her, because the laws of life will cause you to be treated in the same way in the future... well, unlike you enjoy suffering.

So the best is to take out the best of us, and bring out the best of women.

We all want to be happy. So try to be happy with your life, then you may look for a woman you may want to share that happiness.