Originally Posted by yogi
I don't doubt the validity of the Law of Attraction. I've had things happen to me that have led me to believe in it.
My question is about single men who watch a lot of porn / fantasize about sex with beautiful naked women a lot.
How would one parse the logic of the Law of Attraction to understand why these people rarely get laid?
I don't think that it is only single men who are watching porn... and I don't think that watching porn has any influence on whether they get "laid" or not
I know single men... and happily married men... all have watched/seen or continue to watch/see pornography. Some have had better sex lives than the others - and their marital status isn't as great an influence as you'd think in some cases. Some happily watch pornography with thier wives too.
The availablity of sexual material (to watch, order, rent, download etc) these days makes it kind of a natural occurance to those who would seek it out. In earlier times one had to have enough guts to walk up to the lady at the counter of your 7-11... stand in line with the people buying gas... and lay that "juggs" magazine right there on the counter. OR one had to be willing to be seen running into an adult video store, LOL.
These days its only a couple of clicks away to those who want to find it. I don't think it really makes any difference in the kind of person you are and the kind of relationships you can have.
My 2 cents.
(I have been happily married for almost 10 years now... draw your own conclusions