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Originally Posted by iDreamCatcher  Quite often (always?) our successes as well as our problems are the reflections of our inner state of being. Changing reflection without changing the "object" will not produce lasting result.
Reshuffling outer situation either way without changing inner screaming state of "hate" will not produce desired result either. |
I agree with your statement. Change begins within rather than without and such change often starts with an awareness of how intolerably intense the inner conflict has become. Changing reflection without changing the object will not as you say have the desired result but changing the object without the reflection also changing seems impossible.
Being aware of the underlying state of being and taking a step in the outer behavior while having contact with inner object can change both object and reflection. Hopefully this change equals steps leading towards solution.
