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Old 10-19-2009, 01:04 PM   #92 (permalink)
Wolfspirit
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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina View Post
You can't. The two vibrations are incompatible -- unless you want self-employment to drain you too.

You don't need the job. Thinking that you need it is pure delusion, and you're giving it too much power over you. You're stronger than that.

Drop what drains you, and you'll free up a lot more energy to use on your new business.

You can't thrive and prosper unless you remove the shackles.

Awesome advice. I had forgotten about the whole vibration thing, but that statement is so true.

I guess I am just having a hard time letting go of the belief that I need the job. I was raised with the belief that at xx years old, you have to go get a job to make it in the world. And finding something you love that brings in money was only something that happened to the "lucky ones." I'm having to work really hard to change those negative beliefs and know that I CAN be happy and do what I love.

My father passed away a month ago. I am 26 and this has hit me really hard as I was really close to my father. I took some time off from work to be with my father during his final days in Hospice and also help my mother out.

I healed as much I could before I had to go back to work, but I have not been able to work a full week since going back because after this whole experience, everything has changed. While I was out of work, it really gave me the perspective of not working there...and it felt so FREE. I was able to do what really mattered to me. It's really been the push I've needed to move into fully doing what I love.

But since being back at work, it is starting to get harder to feel that feeling of freedom. And that is leading to a stuck vibration. And what makes me feel even more stuck is I don't have a big enough reserve of cash that I can just quit, so I feel like the only thing I can do it find maybe a part time job. But I know even thinking that is very limiting. So, how do I let go? I feel like after this whole experience, it is imperative that I follow my own path and make a difference in the world that makes a difference to me, which is how I've felt with my business.

So that's a little bit where I'm coming from. Any additional advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!
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