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I read a veteran of the forums counsel someone "to focus on the solution not the problem" today and feel it fits the OP's situation and dilemma about choices perfectly.
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Quite often (always?) our successes as well as our problems are the reflections of our inner state of being. Changing reflection without changing the "object" will not produce lasting result.
Reshuffling outer situation either way without changing inner screaming state of "hate" will not produce desired result either.