Also, strong emotion _can_ span a bridge to the deceased strong enough for them to connect back to you through.
That is...they can usually hear you when you talk to them, however the reverse is not automatically true as well (they need to figure out how to communicate back, and you need to actually be open for this kind of response).
So, wherever she is now, your sense of longing may have been strong enough for her to "tap into" that and reach you in your dreams. Yes, she is still "there". She's not gone, nor will she ever be truly gone, although she may change to a point where her previous earth life has less overall meaning to her, i.e. she merges back into the bigger self and "plots a new course".
She might be waiting for a new body to incarnate as, or she might simply be there to comfort you. In either case, I do not believe she'd want you to suffer, but if this is necessary for you to finally work through your grief, then that may be precisely the reason for her showing up in your dreams: to reassure you that everything is alright. That you are alright. That she trusts and encourages you to face your life bravely and with your head held high.
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