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LisaSparkle · 10-19-2009, 09:13 AM

Hello Lovely People,

Well, I didn't know where else to go with this, so I figured this was the best place.

What I want to know is how to tell if seeing deceased relatives in your dreams is your subconscious showing you what you want to see or perhaps the real thing.

My grandmother passed in April of 2000 and lately I have been missing her terribly. I talk to her and look at her photo and sometimes I think I would do anything just to sit down with her for a little while and have a cup of tea and talk about life. Well, since I've started having these feelings, she's been showing up in my dreams fairly regularly. This has never happened before. In the dreams, she is always so real, and I run to her and I can touch her and see her so clearly. I put my hands on her face and I ask her how this can be and ask if she is real. She never says anything, just nods and smiles a huge smile. I'm crying right now, just writing this because I want so bad for it to be real.

There has been a lot of family drama in the past few months and that's when these feelings started for me. I've always missed her, but not like this. I've never missed anyone like this. The drama has died down, but the longing for my grandmother has stayed. I just wonder if there is any way in the world that perhaps it is really her I am connecting with...

Well, thanks to anyone who has read this far. Peace and love to all.

-Lisa

10-19-2009, 09:13 AM	#1 (permalink)
LisaSparkle Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: New York, NY Posts: 43	Just a Dream? Or a Real Connection...? Hello Lovely People, Well, I didn't know where else to go with this, so I figured this was the best place. What I want to know is how to tell if seeing deceased relatives in your dreams is your subconscious showing you what you want to see or perhaps the real thing. My grandmother passed in April of 2000 and lately I have been missing her terribly. I talk to her and look at her photo and sometimes I think I would do anything just to sit down with her for a little while and have a cup of tea and talk about life. Well, since I've started having these feelings, she's been showing up in my dreams fairly regularly. This has never happened before. In the dreams, she is always so real, and I run to her and I can touch her and see her so clearly. I put my hands on her face and I ask her how this can be and ask if she is real. She never says anything, just nods and smiles a huge smile. I'm crying right now, just writing this because I want so bad for it to be real. There has been a lot of family drama in the past few months and that's when these feelings started for me. I've always missed her, but not like this. I've never missed anyone like this. The drama has died down, but the longing for my grandmother has stayed. I just wonder if there is any way in the world that perhaps it is really her I am connecting with... Well, thanks to anyone who has read this far. Peace and love to all. -Lisa Last edited by LisaSparkle; 10-19-2009 at 09:31 AM.