Mmmh...how about giving her the first pleasure of the night using your fingers or tongue? Women take quite a bit longer to get "in the mood" than men, but the good thing is, they can just keep going...and once she's had her first orgasm, it doesn't take that long to get her to a second one.
Also, when you come "too early"...don't fret about it. Give her pleasure differently until she's satisfied as well...and maybe by the time she is, you feel ready for more again (...because seeing, hearing and feeling her "getting off" is really stuff to get a man aroused again).
Side benefit: you will learn what really gets her going.
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