Originally Posted by themaster
I know you don't care iDreamCatcher.. but I've got to say now that I read this Echkart Tolle guy's quote.. (I know who he is.. thought he was okay in the thing I saw him in) if he's saying this is the only way to beat a addiction.. he's dead wrong.. pain is not the only way..
There are other ways to bypass behavior that we call negative.. maybe we should start with the idea of not labeling it negative.. crazy idea huh?
I am "very care" actually. Not labeling something as negative might as well be another door in the same house. To me personally "not labeling" sounds too intellectual. When i try to intellectualize and justify something - my ego always over-intellectualize me.
So working on the level of unconditional feelings brings better results because ego has no saying there.