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Originally Posted by DazednConfused  When I confronted her she told me that she didn't want to be in a relationship (again) but this time explained that she didn't trust guys due to a previous experience. She also thought that I didn't really like her Thats because you never showed her that you liked and categorized me with other guys saying "Plenty of guys have told me that they liked me, but none have ever meant it."
Of course I told her that she could trust me and that I did love her (seeing as how she is the first girl I ever opened my heart to) Interesting definition of love. But, she seems to have the same unrequited love for the guy who broke her trust. In the end she told me that she never meant to lead me on and although she doesn't love me she grew to really like me. I'm just wondering, if she really did like me (as a friend) why would she blatantly flirt with me when she knew it would hurt me She flirted with you to give you a sign that she wanted you to move things along? Also, if she ever does move on from her unrequited love could it be possible for us to have a relationship or am I already in the 'friend zone'? Yes you are |
Did you try to move things along?
Did you try to kiss this girl? Take her out to do something fun?
Isolate where you can move things further than kissing?
For all the girls I've slept with, only one has taken longer than the 2nd date... and it happened on the third date with her.
If you are thinking that you want to build a relationship with her first before you have sex, then you are thinking backwards.
With any initial encounters with a girl, you want to show her your masculine qualities. Dominance, resourcefulness, leadership, etc.
From then on after you have shown those and had some sexual intimacy with her that you should look to build a relationship with her... that is if you choose to.
If a girl sleeps with you quickly, it doesn't mean she is a slut. By quickly I mean within 3-4 hours of meeting. Sometimes even quicker.
All of my serious girlfriends have come from that.