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Originally Posted by Majesticzero  @ Jarrod:
When I want to go shopping I would love to go with a friend. And I would love to be asked to go with a friend instead of being the one who asks. I would also love to have a birthday where I can ask a couple of friend to visit me.
I think I would be a lot happier if I didn't feel lonely. If I had people around me to have fun with.
The feeling I want to get from going out is being around people. |
I see you took the time to think and honestly answer those questions, keep up that honesty and I think you can make great progress.
Here's some more questions for you.
If you would love to be asked to go shopping with someone is it possible that someone else would love to be asked to go shopping with to?
If someone asked you to go shopping with them would you feel more inclined to ask them to go shopping with you later?
If someone asked you to go shopping but you didn't really want to go shopping at that time or with that person would it make you feel happier just because someone asked you? If yes then can you see how by asking others you not only get the chance to enhance your own life but by default you are going to make other people feel better about themselves.
I know I prefer to hang out with people who make me feel better about who I am.
You said you wanted the feeling of 'being around people', to me this sounds like an initial goal. Imagine you had already achieved this and had an awesome social life. What sort of interactions would you have with people then? What would you do? What you talk about? What would they talk about with you?
Listening to how you answered the questions asked of you I think you have a lot of potential to live whatever sort of social life you choose.