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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf  I mean, I can kiss a girl and have sex with her without any anxiety whatsoever when I know she wants it. But touching a girl on the arm unless I'm sure not to get rejected is close to impossible for me. How f'ed up is that?  |
Maybe it's just like jumping in the sea, it's kind of cold at first, and you get there gradually, but once you get your hips under the water, then it gets easier and easier to go further in the sea.. you know?
So getting to first base is really hard for you, but once you're there, the home-run is easy work for you..
OK,
My social growth exercises..
- Texted a friend to organise an upcoming gig, and stuff next Friday night (2)
- Asked my boss for a payrise (9) - The first time I've ever asked for a payrise! But ideally, in about 5 years time, I'll be in a position where I work for myself, and I don't need to be saying "Please sir, I want some more"
Other activities I need to do
- Organise a party at my house (8) Not sure whether to make it a Christmas time BBQ or party 3-4 weeks time.. I'm just scared that nobody will turn up
But last time I hosted a Xmas BBQ I had 8 people turn up, and it went really well