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Old 10-16-2009, 10:24 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by rei View Post
that's nice for you ar81.
i don't think i am the only person who would have read it that way. of course manipulation has no gender, but many of the women i know have used sex and/or tears to get their way. whether that's right or wrong is not the point.
and at least i have the courage to admit i made an assumption on a forum for personal growth
Heh, don't sweat it. You're not the first person to assume that, nor will you be the last, so it's all good.

On a different vein, though, I could probably offer the opposits of everything I posted in that post and they would make for a list of things you SHOULD do.

1. Honesty
2. Cooperation
3. Compatibility
4. Sharing your individuality

But I don't have the experience of a successful relationship to back that up.
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