Me and my partner aer together for 3 years and 3 months now:
-we have specific aims together:raise a family together ( this since the begining,was a natural thing for us to think about..)
- we respect each other a lot
- we accept the other one as he/she is,never wanting to change the other ( this is really important)
- we have the same values in life,although we had diferent experiences during our childwood and teen years...i had an easy one and he had traumatic stressfull events.
- we admire each other for who he/she is.
- we know that if we split apart,we will never have the same luck again with someone
- Trust and Loyalty;when others see a happy couple,and are unhappy with their own life,usually they would try to see if we are really that happy;and if so,others can be pretty much envious.So,trust and loyalty are so important for us,cause there wil always be those who will try to make us as unhappy as they are
the diferences:
i guess are the usual between man and woman
he is more rational,more objective and im idealist and spiritual.but we balance things out really...we have a great capacity of having fun together and when we are angry about each other,we cannot stand it to be for much long ( usually 2 or 3 days)....
advice?
well it is true - when you meet her,you will know it hihihihi
but i would say this: usually,the right people meet and often have something separating them ( that is the obstacle that you two must realize and overcome).and most of the times,you will need to put your Ego aside ( in matters of pride,material needings,race,religion....etc..)
one thing
ont ever sacrifice.for the need of the other or something in the relationship. if you FEEL it is a sacrifice....that is cause it is not the best thing to do...it will lead to ressentment.