[bmlyeryk]

i think this "preplanned" destiny came from religions, the belief in this so-called "God" that created evrything (christinaity).

you cannot have both predeterminism and free will. its either one or the other. i choose LOA

you know how old beliefs stem from being "taught' things about yourself & others come from early childhood and earlier too? well those beliefs carry on and attract certain things to you the same way, until you chnage them
if a child believes they'reunworthy or did not get treated right, they will still attract what they think unconsciously, LOA doesnt only apply to older people