I do get that a lot. I think way too much! I am afraid that If I don't cut it out, i'll develope some sort of neurotic disorder. It's just that I want to feel like I can control everything and so I am constantly thinking...thiking..seven steps ahead. It's CRAZy. But the sad truth is that I can't control everything. Infact I can't even control what happens to me. But thanks for the advice, i'll try to work it out!