IA with ssandra.
Even my most "spiritually conscious/mutual" breakup hurt me in a way that I couldn't speak to the guy for 3 months. Now we're in pretty regular contact and we trade pictures of the kiddies, etc. I think it's unreasonable to expect someone to be completely okay with a breakup soon after. Give them space, and maybe, in time, they might be friend material. Then again, maybe not, it's not a requirement.
