spirit4711;
I'd agree there are conscious manipulators, but I think that people will choose to be manipulative because they can't be happy with themselves unless they're manipulating to get what they want..
I once worked at a petrol station, when I was about 22, (5 years ago) and I had longish hair and there was this insane girl about 30, who I was working with, and really didn't know how to shut up, at all, and she was nagging to me that I need a haircut and she was a hairdresser and could cut my hair. I just told her I had a hairdresser already, and then she asked me about 50 times "why don't you want to get your haircut?" and I just ignored her until she stopped.
That's pretty manipulative, wanting to change someones hairstyle, but I think she just wanted the acceptance
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