First, there's nothing wrong with being a homebody. Some people actually prefer women like that.
As for your man, here is something I wrote for another member:
Quote:
Originally Posted by TonyToneTone  To get love you have to setup a polarity to attract it. When you're sitting there thinking about how much you want it but don't have it, or focusing on sadness, you're not in harmonic alignment with what you want.
So how does one setup a polarity to attract love? You have to give it! By giving you receive it. Start by thinking loving thoughts towards others and loving thoughts towards yourself. You can then act lovingly towards them and you. For instance, every time you meet someone you can think "I love you" or "I appreciate you" and every time you pass a mirror you can look yourself in the eyes and say "I love you".
EXERCISE:
So you want the man of your dreams? Do this. Grab a pen and paper and write out:
My Ideal Man (or boyfriend or husband or whatever you want)
And list all his qualities:
Tall
Dark
Handsome
But don't stop at just the physical, keep going!
Kind
Loving
Affectionate
Respectful
Warm when with me
Touchy/feel
Trustworthy
be as specific as you like. You can even include a picture of your ideal person.
Now, every day for a 1-2 a day I want you sit down and view your list and feel the feelings as if you had this person now. You'll be putting yourself into the right vibration to attract this person and relationship into your life.
I have a friend who is a well-known teacher who does this with his clients. He says that many of his women clients who do this say that they not only met their ideal man but actually met the person on their list! I actually had a friend of mine do this exercise some time back. The guy she is with now is right in line with the guy she put on her list. He even came at the same time that she wrote down that she wanted him in her life.
Remember, everyone in your life is simply a reflection of the energy you are giving out. When you give out love, kindness, generosity, you can expect that in turn! |
As you get a clear image of what you want, it'll be easier to manifest him.
In regard to your life, you could do a few things;
1) Sign up for workshops, groups (maybe reading circles), etc.. where you can meet other like minded people
2) Come up with an image of what you would like your life to be and look like. Spend 15-30 minutes writing out how you would like your ideal life to be then come up with a plan to make it happen. After that, take some action on the plan.
3) Do any inner work that involves loving yourself more. The more you love yourself, the more other people want to be around you. You're like a magnet to them. Maybe Louise Hay's "You Can Heal Your Life?" would be good for you?
I hope this helps! BTW, I always think people have way more friends then they realize.