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brendannz · 10-15-2009, 10:05 AM

Yep, a marriage is a piece of paper and a series of promises in front of friends and family.

So I think if you're going to make these promises, and you feel the need to experiment beforehand, then doing so is only going to reinforce the promise made, right?

honesty's important for living an authentic and quality life, I think...

I agree with aelle about the shoulds and musts though..

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brendannz Family Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,612	Yep, a marriage is a piece of paper and a series of promises in front of friends and family. So I think if you're going to make these promises, and you feel the need to experiment beforehand, then doing so is only going to reinforce the promise made, right? honesty's important for living an authentic and quality life, I think... I agree with aelle about the shoulds and musts though..