Through him you are giving an outlet to be more you. For instance, my gf is SO laid back, I love it. I wish and am working to be more like that. With me, she gets someone who is really driven and passionate, which she likes.
It's kind of like when you see really a big buff guy with a tiny petite woman. The guy gets to be his big self and she can go on being petite.
Make sense?
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