First of all, realise very well, not just intelectually but really that this has nothing to do with you!!
I understand how you feel. My sexlife is also not what I would like it to be. It is difficult and people from the outside cannot always see all the difficult emotions evolved in this situation.
just some observations:
If there is something not working in him with regards to his energy, doesn´t he think it would be better to work on it, instead of just stop having sex?
Seeing this guy worked for 3 months, can he not go to him every 3 months?
Can you talk to him about how you feel without him laying a guilt trip on you or you on him?
How is he with regards to his energy otherwise? I find that issues that deal with energy are not contained to only 1 area of a persons life. They usually show in other areas as well.. another reason to change the cause and not just the effect...
I wish you all the strenght and love in the world to deal with this. If you want to talk privately you can always sent me a pm.
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