[Erin Pavlina]

Speaking to deceased people in a dream on the phone is probably the most common dream you can have about a deceased person. It usually indicates real communication. They give it to you in a form you can understand. That it didn't affect you emotionally doesn't concern me. Not all of them will. What happens though is that while they are coming through your own mind can warp aspects of the dream. So while she might be communicating with you authentically, it may not be crystal clear... you might be bringing in some of your own flotsam and jetsam with it.