Interesting discussion.
Common point that seems to help all people coming from deep emotional hurts toward healing is: forgiveness.
Forgiveness is essentially feeling of love toward the person or situation that hurted you. Loving your enemy. Can we change our non loving feelings to love without any reason for it?
I studying the life of enlightened master who was given 3 months to live due to very poor health condition. His healing practice was to intentionally change every negative non-loving feeling to love. That was it.
From people he hated to negative events he experienced. He decided to love them all - one by one. In 3 months time he completely healed all his emotional wounds, attained full spiritual realization and lived for another 42 years teaching others who wanted to learn self-mastery.
I even founded a special forum that dedicated to self transformation practices based on unconditional love.
There is just so much practical potential in this approach - and i am very practical person. My own demons are guiding me toward this venue of healing and growth.
Gleb
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