I'm an adrogenous female. When I was younger I acted and dressed like a boy, but that came off as weird. Later on I decided to become much more feminine and that felt fake. So now I'm just myself, and I'm a bit of both. I think you should just be who you are. Inside my head I'm not female or male I just am (ya know?)
But definately play around with feminity and find what works for you. Pamper and groom yourself nicely. The girliest girls I know are all about looking their best. So manicure your nails, do your eyebrows, I know guys that do this and it makes them look clean not feminine. Their eyebrows are just neatened up and their nails are trimmed and clear polished. Go shopping for clothes that make you feel good and make you look good. In your home, decorate it with an eye for comfort. Your bedroom for instance, buy a new comforter and lots of pillows (or whatever feels right for you). Have a movie night and watch sappy love stories just to see what that does for you. Find something to nurture, a plant a pet but take care of something that's living. Hang out with girls and just be yourself.
No matter what, you are who you are, you just have to find your comfort zone.
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