I just went through most of the "Mistakes and Failures are bad" video, which I felt helped in some vague way, probably because I didn't really feel that... until I hit this gem (for me, personally). For the longest time, I haven't really found too much use out of PD material, but when you hit gold, it can be so sweet - I love manifesting more powerful beliefs!
...the belief that it’s impossible to make lasting change, quickly and easily! <-- I didn't realize the importance of feeling strongly enough about the reverse!
Here are some fun mixups of the words that I created for fun and use, you'll understand if you saw the video.
1) Mom and dad thought that creating lasting change, quickly and easily were impossible, but they could be wrong.
2) Mom and Dad were mad or annoyed because you didn't do
what they wanted, or
the way they wanted or
when they wanted, not because creating lasting change was slow, hard or impossible
3) Lasting change was considered slow, hard and nearly impossible in your family but that doesn't mean they'd be considered slow, hard or nearly impossible in all families.
4) Not achieving something might not necessary mean that it will continue to be slow, hard or nearly impossible, especially in your next attempt. In fact, you might have already succeeded.
5) Not achieving something doesn't make it automatically a slow, hard and nearly impossible process. Its part of a learning process that might not be necessary at all, since learning processes (creating lasting change) can be manifested quickly, easily with super-high probability of success.
6) Mom and dad's annoyance wasn't a response to creating lasting change, they were just too insecure to let you learn so much faster, in such an easier manner and with such a super-high probability of success.
7) Perhaps your parents had limiting beliefs about a child your age succeeding so brilliantly.
6) Does "creating lasting change quickly, easily and with a high probability of success" now seem like it's the truth, not just a truth? (Please answer out loud.)
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I'm already realizing so many other beliefs that I can change so easily... this is powerful and simple. Thank you for sharing, Steve.