Thank you everyone for your stories, they are great to read
My IM has been interesting in the fact I have been able to find a) the house I was looking for 6 years ago (and sold 3 years later haha
), b) jobs I was looking for c) meeting the right people when you 'need' them * d) recently found THE piece of land my partner and I were looking for with all the things we were hoping for. My work has taken off heaps since I asked for more of it (out loud with conviction) and I have been meeting new friends and joined a business network group, which is what I was thinking of as well. Quite amazing really and I feel very grateful for all of it.
* I have found that I am sometimes being that person that other people 'need' in a time in their life as well.