Thanks everyone,
I agree that normally I would not care what other people think. Actually... i Really do not care what other people think
But, my husband does have a veto right on what I do to my body (and I on his body, mutual agreement) and he does not want it to effect his professional life or mine.
I like the idea of having it on my back (what carenkh wrote) but I would not like it that I am not able to see it.
It will be a reminder of who I am, and that it is ok to be who and what I am, whatever that may be. The book where it comes from (Kushiel´s series from Jacqueline Carey) gave me that shift, plus I really like the rose like this!.