[Erki]

I think I also have something like this. I'm concerned that if I need someone or affection of someone then I'm needy, which I've understood to be a bad thing. Also, I read that one should be fine with themselves and not to seek someone to complete themselves. But if I feel the need for something then I'm not exactly complete, or...? And of course that wanting intimacy and affection and care and things like that are more feminine things and as a guy, I shouldn't feel the need whatsoever for it.