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Originally Posted by Exousia87  I've read Steve's post on personal development and I took a step back to observe the situation. If I am to blame on the other party for what they are to do to me, I will be blaming the outside world for causing me to feel bad. I realize that the problem lies with me, but i am not sure what it is. The Law of Attraction attracts situations and people we meet in our life. So I am wondering what is the signal that I've been sending out to the universe that cause such scenarios to happen time and again? Why does these 'disappearing acts' keep happening? How can i use and understand the concept of the law of attraction to began changing my mindset and attract the things i want in my life? |
You may be overstepping your own power a bit here. You didn't cause the girls to vanish. You didn't cause these events in your life. You didn't do anything to cause the outside world at all. It might have all arising in your intention, but it wasn't on purpose.
The solution is when you said "I will be blaming the outside world for causing me to feel bad." It's not the blame, but the misrecognition of the word cause. The outside world didn't cause anything. It just did what it does. You experienced the outside world, then caused yourself to feel bad. The girls may have vanished and you lost contact with them, but it was you that put meaning and significant into it to turn it into more than it is.
If you want to apply LoA to this example, you've been broadcasting the thought: "I let the outside world affect how I feel."
Taking Steve's work: You are the single authority on you. Only you can determine how you are meant to feel over what you experience from the world.
The next step is working out why you feel bad when people lose contact with you.