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Exousia87 · 10-02-2009, 05:24 AM

Hi Erasmus

Thank you for helping me in analyzing the situation. Before the first girl, i am great with girls and not feel reluctant to get close to them.

After reading, i think u are right to say that i have not eliminate my underlying insecurities. In fact, i really grew to distrust girls nowadays. I couldn't believe a word they say..It just seems to me that they are always saying one thing and doing another. And yes you are right that i am focusing more on things that i don't want in relationships.

Just to ask, is there any form of exercise or procedure that i can follow and do to change this mindset? I've bought a book on NLP previously but it seems that I couldn't summon up the strong feelings that are described in the book to affect my way of thoughts and thinking. Somehow, over the years, i felt blockage towards my emotions. Many emotions (e.g. Joy, anger, jealousy etc.) have been dampened and i couldn't feel all these intensely anymore. Sometimes it felt like an empty shell with only a wisp of emotion from time to time. I am thinking of joining a NLP course to learn about the technique and further improve on my thought process. Do you think it will help??

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Exousia87 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 3	Hi Erasmus Thank you for helping me in analyzing the situation. Before the first girl, i am great with girls and not feel reluctant to get close to them. After reading, i think u are right to say that i have not eliminate my underlying insecurities. In fact, i really grew to distrust girls nowadays. I couldn't believe a word they say..It just seems to me that they are always saying one thing and doing another. And yes you are right that i am focusing more on things that i don't want in relationships. Just to ask, is there any form of exercise or procedure that i can follow and do to change this mindset? I've bought a book on NLP previously but it seems that I couldn't summon up the strong feelings that are described in the book to affect my way of thoughts and thinking. Somehow, over the years, i felt blockage towards my emotions. Many emotions (e.g. Joy, anger, jealousy etc.) have been dampened and i couldn't feel all these intensely anymore. Sometimes it felt like an empty shell with only a wisp of emotion from time to time. I am thinking of joining a NLP course to learn about the technique and further improve on my thought process. Do you think it will help??