It's awareness, which is a good thing. You can't change what you don't notice, and when you notice it in yourself, you start to notice it in others.
I've been through it over a period of time and have come out the other side. It's an interesting journey that's for sure. The most amazing thing I got out of it was instead of seeing people as annoyances, or problems, I realised that people are loving and individual, just with a bunch of flaws that can be easily overlooked. When you realise that people aren't their flaws, just like you aren't yours, you can skip past all the personality fluff and just connect with that person directly. It's one of the most liberation realisations.
So don't be worried about seeing your own mistakes in others, it's just the first step in realising that people are not their mistakes.
