Thanks to the both of you. After thinking about it, I suppose you're right. It probably was the best way of letting me know and the message itself was pretty clear and courteous. Maybe I'm just a little perplexed at why she suddenly did a 180 degree turn from being very clearly interested to not being interested at all.
Most of all, I guess I just need more experience with dating - having never dated anyone before this year. I think maybe I just need to cut myself some slack.. I'm pretty perfectionistic and quick to assume I made some mistakes in the dating process rather than it just being a case of us not being a good match.
I agree about attachment. I think trying to get rid of the attachment to outcome would be the best way to improve my "dating game".. as well as developing an abundance mentality and really realise there's lots and lots of women out there and screwing up with one isn't really a disaster.
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