hi steve, i've never responded but have read your site for many months now. I'd just like to say thanks for your positive comments and articles. Your most recent article has certainly highlighted what i'm already aware of and what needs to be changed about myself. i want to be like Emily's bear in the middle to be unique and original. While todays article was short and sweet i feel that like the bear in the middle it has a lot to say and gives you a lot to think about. Thank you very much for your silent support and encouragement and i look forward to hearing more words of wisdom