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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf  Thanks a lot, shasah! Most of the goals are pretty hard, but I really like living a life where I'm more in control than I used to be. I reacted pretty strongly to her "part rejection" at first yesterday. Fortunately I didn't take me long to realise that it doesn't have to be about me - like you said - and that I should lighten up and just take it easy. One of the hard parts for me is not being in control, but I realise trying to have control over something like this is very hard 
As for working on your issues - good for you! Sounds like you're well on your way already with the social exercises |
Good work..
I've found this year with rejection that even when you do get rejected, often the people who reject you still like you, it just wasn't a perfect fit.
I've found in an area I have lots of confidence (with my art) that I take a rejection and might be slightly hurt, but am always strengthened by the rejection, because I see it as perfect feedback..
In social situations I guess I always feel I've got to protect my ego from being vulnerable, or hurt, so have to work on that one, I think..