Thanks a lot, shasah! Most of the goals are pretty hard, but I really like living a life where I'm more in control than I used to be. I reacted pretty strongly to her "part rejection" at first yesterday. Fortunately I didn't take me long to realise that it doesn't have to be about me - like you said - and that I should lighten up and just take it easy. One of the hard parts for me is not being in control, but I realise trying to have control over something like this is very hard
As for working on your issues - good for you! Sounds like you're well on your way already with the social exercises